More about Dr. Joseph Murphy
Use the Power of Your Subconscious Mind to Find True Wealth, Revised by Ian D. McMahan, Ph.D., New York: Penguin Putnam, 2001.
Think Yourself Rich if one of Dr. Murphy’s books I found only recently, and I think it is very well written and edited, perhaps one of the best-edited books by the author, and the persons who care for the spiritual and literary legacy of the genius. What is unique in this book compared to The Power of Your Subconscious Mind and The Miracle of Mind Dynamics is the abundance of set prayers that you can profitably use for yourself. I will quote come of them further down.
Let me say this as an introduction to this review. This book is not only about creating wealth, but generally about handling your wishes and desires and learning to care for their positive outcome and realization in our space-time reality. This is not a lack of focus; the truth is you cannot separate material riches from spiritual riches, which is one of the eternal laws of the mind. The material plane is a sub-plane of the larger spiritual wealth plane, which is why in the Jewish tradition and other ancient spiritual traditions, material wealth is considered an outflow of spiritual wealth.
King Solomon, as reported in the Bible, chose wisdom over material possessions and was then blessed with material wealth in addition to abundant spiritual knowledge and worldly power. This is not, as many today believe, a focus on material status, but flows out from a wide definition of spiritual wealth, as it is to be found in the root traditions of all ancient civilizations.
What I found very precious in this book compared to other books of the author is that it contains real life examples of people who did the prayers, but did them wrongly, thus experiencing no or reverse effects.
For example, Dr. Murphy told a client who prayed for an elder relative who suffered from a debilitating illness to change her approach and avoid dwelling on specific organs of the body and their disorders and instead identifying with the infinite healing presence in our subconscious mind. By the same token, prayers should not be endlessly repeated but only a few times per day because the very fact to pray excessively signals to the subconscious mind that we lack faith in the outcome of the prayer, thereby reversing the response of the subconscious mind. Hence, the importance of lightness of touch when praying. Murphy explains:
When, through sympathy, we accede to the negative or baleful aspects of a person’s situation or condition, we tend to aggravate the problem. /16
To feel sorry for the ill person and to commiserate with him or her is to drag the person down. This is a negative approach. /17
When you think of your desire, lightness of touch is important. /18
Long sessions of prayer are usually a mistake. They may indicate that you are trying to force things by using mental coercion. This generally leads to the opposite of what you are praying for. You will often find that a short prayer uttered from the heart gets better results than a long prayer. /81
Divine indifference means that you know it is impossible for your prayer to fail, for it is written, He will not fail thee, nor forsake thee (Deuteronomy 31:6)/96
The diagnosis as it were that the author applied to his clients, before he recommended a specific prayer, and by listening to their hardships, can be summarized as something like ‘the war against the world and circumstances.’ On the other hand, the cure of the disease of course is love, but it is hard to give a timeframe as to the outcome of the prayers:
The war you are waging against the world, you are really waging against your own subconscious mind. Every day you tell it that life is full of conflict and hostility, and every day it takes you at your word and makes manifest the conditions you expect. /20
Think regularly and systematically of life, illumination, inspirations, harmony, prosperity, happiness, peace, and the life more abundant. Think these truths rather than this or that condition on them. /24
Love frees; it gives; it is the spirit of God. Love opens prison doors and sets free the captives and all those bound by fear, resentment, and hostility. /43
People frequently ask me, ‘How often should I pray for a loved one who is ill, who is in the hospital, or who is having serious financial problems?’ The best response I can give is that you should pray until you feel satisfied within, or until you feel that this is the best you can do for the time being. (…) You will know when your prayer is answered, because you will experience an inner sense of peace and certitude. /81
Another important problem Dr. Murphy addresses in this book is to make choices. In fact, there are many people who do not dare to choose. They are afraid to choose or they are wary to choose, apprehensive of any possible outcome.
Dr. Murphy affirms our right to choose and explains that we actually always choose, even in the moment we refuse to choose. Because what we choose then, is being chosen by others, for passively fulfilling their needs and wants projected upon us:
I don’t know what to choose, Greta M told me. How can I possibly tell what is reasonable or logical? You have made a choice, I replied. By deciding not to choose for yourself, you have chosen to accept whatever comes from the mass mind or the law of averages, in which we are all immersed. /138
You are constantly being called upon to choose in this life. What kind of thoughts and images are you choosing? I want to reiterate and emphasize again that your whole life represents the sum total of your choices. /139
Some say, I will let God choose for me. When you say that, you mean a god outside yourself. God, or the Living Spirit, is omnipresent and is also within you, the very life of you. The only way God, or Infinite Intelligence, will work for / you is to work through you. In order for the Universal to act on the individual plane, it must become the individual. /139-140
The ultimate root of Murphy’s teaching is to bring us to assuming full responsibility for our lives; for this to achieve, we need to do away with projections and self-pity, and the eternal escape of blaming fate for our failures. Dr. Murphy explains:
It is not fate that blocks your success or riches, nor lack of money, introductions, or contracts. It is yourself. All you have to do is to change your thought-life and keep it changed. Let your habitual thinking be: Success is mine. God’s wealth is mine, harmony is mine, and I am a channel for all the riches of God. Your thoughts are creative, you become what you think all day long. /162
Here are some prayers sampled from the book:
I know that to prosper means to grow spiritually in every dimension. God is prospering me now in mind, body, and affairs. God’s ideas constantly unfold within me, bringing to me health, wealth, and perfect Divine expression./10
Today is God’s day; it is a glorious day for me, as it is full of peace, harmony and joy. My faith in the good is written in my heart and felt in my inward parts. I am absolutely convinced that there is a Presence and a perfect Law that receives the impress of my desire now and that irresistibly attracts into my experience all the good things my heart desires. I now place all my reliance, faith, and trust in the Power and Presence of God within me; I am at peace./24
I am born to succeed; the Infinite within me can’t fail. Divine law and order govern my life, Divine peace fills my soul, Divine love saturates my mind. Infinite intelligence guides me in all ways. God’s riches flow to me freely. I am advancing, moving forward, and growing mentally, spiritually, financially, and in all other ways. I know these truths are sinking into my subconscious mind and will grow after their kind./68
I know there is only one Source, the Life-Principle, from which all things flow. It created the universe and all things therein contained. I am a focal point of the Divine presence. My mind is open and receptive. I am a free-flowing channel for harmony, beauty, guidance, wealth, and the riches of the infinite. I know that health, wealth, and success are released from within and appear without. I am now in harmony with the infinite riches within and without, and I know these thoughts are sinking into my subconscious mind and will be reflected on the screen of space. I wish for everyone all the blessings of life. I am open and receptive to God’s riches— spiritual, mental, and material—and they flow to me in avalanches of abundance./86-87
Today is God’s day. I choose harmony, peace, perfect health, Divine law and order, Divine love, beauty, abundance, security, and inspiration from On High. I know that as I claim these truths in my life, I awaken and activate the powers of my subconscious, which compel me to express all these powers and qualities. I know it is as easy for God to become all these things in my life as it is for a seed to become a blade of grass. I give thanks that this is so./137
Divine right action is mine. Success is mine. Wealth is mine. Happiness is mine. God’s river of peace flows through my mind, body, and activities, and whatever I do will prosper. I know my thoughts are creative./91
God opens up the way for me to go on this journey in Divine order and through Divine love./121
Giving Up Smoking
Freedom and peace of mind are mine now. I know that as I believe and affirm these truths, they are sinking down into my subconscious mind. I will be under compulsion to give up cigarettes, as the law of my subconscious is compulsion. In my / imagination I see my doctor before me. He has just finished examining me and is congratulating me on my freedom from my habit and my perfect health./20-21
The God-Presence within me is all-wise and is taking care of this in Divine order. I am not keeping tabs on the God-Presence within as to how, when, where, or through what source this will be solved. I let go and let God take care of it./22
I loose my son to God completely. He is Divinely guided in all his ways and Divine wisdom anoints his intellect. Divine law and order reign supreme in his life. He is guided to his true place and is expressing himself at his highest level. I loose him and let him go./23
My husband is God’s child. god is guiding him to his true place. What he is seeking is seeking him. God’s love fills his soul and God’s peace fills his mind and heart. God prospers him in all ways. There are harmony, peace, love, and understanding between us. It is God in action in our lives./77
I know my desire for marriage and happiness is the voice of God in me urging me to lead a full and happy life. I know that I am one with the Infinite now. I know and believe there is a woman waiting to love and cherish me. I know I can contribute to her happiness and peace. I can be a great asset to her. I can cherish, love and inspire her to greatness, just as she inspires me. She loves my ideals, and I love her ideals. She does not want to make me over; neither do I want to make her over. There are mutual love, freedom, and respect between us. These words go forth and accomplish whereunto they are sent. I have written this request in my subconscious mind with faith and confidence, and I decree it is done, finished, and established in my deeper mind. Whenever I think of marriage, I shall remind myself that the Infinite Intelligence of my subconscious is bringing this to pass in Divine order./89
Infinite Spirit in its wisdom opens up the gateway for [name]’s true expression in life, where he [she] is doing what he [she] loves to do, is Divinely happy and Divinely prospered. He [she] is Divinely led to the right people, who appreciate his [her] talents, and he [she] receives marvelous and wonderful income for wonderful service. He [she] is conscious of / his [her] true worth, and he [she] is blessed and prospered with God’s riches beyond his [her] fondest dreams. I turn this prayer over to my subconscious mind, which has the ability to accomplish it. It brings it to pass in Divine order./129-130
My wife is a tremendous success. She is absolutely outstanding. The Infinite within her is all-wise and all-powerful. My wife is going from glory to glory; she is going up the ladder of success and promotion. Her real talents are revealed and appreciated. She is Divinely guided and her success comes to pass now. I give thanks, for I know what I decree stirs up the gift of God within her./201
I forgive myself for harboring negative and destructive thoughts, and I release my former employers and present associates to God completely, wishing for them all the blessings of life. Whenever I think of any one of them, I will immediately affirm, ‘I have released you; God be with you.’ I know as I continue to do this that I will meet them in my mind and that there will no longer be any sting present. I claim promotion now, success now, harmony now. Divine law and order are mine now. God’s wealth flows to me in avalanches of abundance. Life is growth and expansion. I am an open channel for God’s riches, which are ever-active, ever-present, unchanging, and eternal. I give thanks now for the riches within and without. What I am now decreeing comes to pass, and the light of God shines upon me. /131
I radiate goodwill to all humankind in thought, word, and deed. I know the peace and goodwill that I radiate to every person comes back to me a thousandfold. Whatever I need to know comes to me from the God-Self within me. Infinite Intelligence is operating through me, revealing to me what I need to know. God in me knows the answer. The perfect answer is made known to me now. Infinite Intelligence and Divine wisdom make all decisions through me, and there is only right action and right expression taking place in my life. Every night I wrap myself in the mantle of God’s love and fall asleep knowing Divine guidance is mine. When the dawn comes, I am filled with peace. I go forth into the new day full of faith, confidence, and trust. Thank you, father. /132
I surrender my son, his wife, and family to God completely, lock, stock and barrel. I loose them and let them go. I give them freedom to lead his own life in his own way, knowing that he is God’s man and that God loves him and cares for him and his / family. I release him and set him free spiritually, mentally, and emotionally. Any time he, his wife, or his family come to my mind, I will immediately affirm ,‘I have released you. God be with you. I am free now and so are you.’ It is God in action in my life, which means harmony, peace, and right action./208-209
I choose health, peace of mind, freedom and sobriety right now. This is my decision. I know that the Almighty Power backs up my choice. I am relaxed, and God’s river of peace flows through me. My spiritual food and drink are God’s ideas and eternal verities, which unfold within me bringing me harmony, health, peace, and joy. I am Divinely happy. Whenever the urge to drink comes, I remember these Divinely inspired ideas in my mind and the God Power backs me up./136
Specific Answer Desired
Father, you are all-wise. Reveal to me the answer and show me the way I should go. I give thanks for the right answer, for I know You know the only answer./141
God is my instant and everlasting supply, and that bill is paid in Divine order./67
That car is for sale. It is a Divine idea, and I accept it in Divine Order./67
I acknowledge and praise the Source within and I make contact with my thought. I give thanks that the gateway to riches is now open wide for me. God’s riches flow freely to me, and more and more money is circulating in my life every day. Every day of my life I grow richer spiritually, mentally, financially, and in all ways. Money is God’s idea circulating in my life, and there is always a surplus. I give thanks to the living God, who giveth us richly all things to enjoy (1 Timothy 6:17)./125
Infinite Intelligence knows my hidden talents and opens up a new door of expression for me in Divine order. This knowledge is immediately revealed to my conscious mind. I will follow the lead that comes clearly and definitely into my mind./126
From this moment forward I sow in my subconscious mind thoughts of peace, confidence, poise, and balance. I harvest the fruit of the wonderful seeds I sow. I believe and accept the fact that my desire is a seed deposited in the subconscious. I make it real by feeling the reality of it. I accept the reality of my desire in the same manner I accept the fact that the seed deposited in the ground will grow. I know it grows in the darkness; also, my desire or ideal grows in the darkness of my subconscious mind. In a little while, like the seed, it appears above the ground as a condition, circumstance, or event. Infinite Intelligence governs and guides me in all ways. I meditate on whatsoever things are true, honest, just, lovely, and of good report. I think of these things, and God’s power is with my thoughts of good. I am at peace./142
Infinite Intelligence is my constant guide and counselor. I will instantly recognize the promptings and monitions that come from my Higher Self, which forever seek to protect, guide, and watch over me in all ways. I will instantly recognize the lead which comes into my conscious mind, and I will always disregard groundless fancies. I know that my deeper mind responds to what I am now consciously writing on it, and I give thanks for the joy of the answered prayer. /146-147
Selling Stock Options
My subconscious mind will make me instantly aware of the right stock to buy, at the right time, in the right way. This will bless me and my clients./151
Selling Real Estate
I have perfect faith in God’s supply and in God’s guidance. I know that all who buy a home through me are prospered and blessed. Infinite Intelligence attracts buyers to me who want the houses I sell, who can afford to buy them, and who will rejoice in their possession. I am blessed, and they are blessed. I am strong in the Lord and in the power of His might. Divine activity and immediate, perfect results now take place in my life, and I give thanks for the miracles in my life./165
Being a Brilliant Actor
I give all my allegiance, devotion and loyalty to the God-Self within, which is none other than my Higher Self. I know that love of my Higher Self means to have a healthy, reverent, wholesome respect for the Divinity within me, which is all-powerful and all-wise. I know that love of God is to give my supreme allegiance to the One Presence and Power within me. I know I can do all things through the God-Power that strengthens me. As I perform on stage, just as in my life off-stage, the Presence within me speaks directly and clearly to the Presence within those who watch. I live the role I play: I feel entranced, fascinated, and absorbed in the drama; and I hear those I love and respect congratulating me. It is wonderful./171-172
Healing Skin Problem
My skin is an envelope of God’s love. It is without spot and blemish. It is fresher than a child’s, and the radiance of youth and beauty saturate my whole being./176
Resolving a Law Suit
All those involved in this suit are surrounded by the sacred circle of God’s love. God’s love, truth, and harmony reign supreme in the minds and hearts of all involved. They are all known in Divine mind, and the law of love prevails./176
God is the source of my supply. I know when I am anxious, it means I do not trust God. The money I now possess is magnified and multiplied a thousandfold. I realize all the money I have is a symbol of the infinite riches of God. I turn to the Infinite Presence within, knowing in my heart and soul it opens the way for me to pay all my debts, leaving me a vast surplus. I surrender a list of all these debts in the hands of my Heavenly Father, and I give thanks they are all paid in Divine order. God’s riches are circulating in my life, and I rejoice and am exceedingly glad that every creditor is paid now, and God prospers me beyond my fondest dreams. I believe that I have received now, and I know that according to my faith is it done unto me. I know God will rain blessings from Heaven for me now./185
Peace at the Work Place
God’s love governs me at work. I have no opinion about others. I judge not; therefore I cannot suffer or be disturbed. The peace and harmony of God govern me and all that I do. Every anxious thought is completely stilled, for I am working for God, and His peace fills my soul. The confidence and joy of God enfold me at all times. All who work in the office are God’s sons and daughters, and each one contributes to the peace, harmony, prosperity, and success of this office. Divine love comes in the door of our office, and Divine love governs the minds and hearts of all in the office; and Divine love goes out the door. God is my boss, my paymaster, my guide, and my counselor, and I recognize no other. I give all power and recognition to God and I walk serenely and peacefully in His light. I laugh, I sing, and I rejoice. God works wonders in my life./187
I have a perfect memory for everything I need and want to know./188
My feet are relaxed, my ankles are relaxed, the calves of my legs are relaxed, my abdominal muscles are relaxed, my heart and lungs are relaxed, my spine is relaxed, my neck and shoulders are relaxed, my brain is relaxed, my eyes are relaxed, my hands and arms are relaxed. My whole being is relaxed. I feel God’s river of peace flowing through me like a golden river of life, love, truth, and beauty. The spirit and inspiration of the Almighty flow through me, vitalizing, healing, and restoring my entire being. The wisdom and power of the Almighty enable me to fulfill all my goals in Divine order through Divine love. I am always relaxed, serene, poised, and balanced, and my / faith and confidence is in God and all things good. I can do all things through the God-Power that strengthens me. I dwell in the secret place of the Most High, and all the thoughts entertained by me conform to harmony, peace, and goodwill to all./189-190
Today I am reborn spiritually! I completely detach myself from the old way of thinking, and I bring Divine love, light, and truth definitely into my experience. I consciously feel love for everyone I meet. Mentally I say to everyone I contact, ‘I see the God in you and I know you see the God in me.’ I recognize the qualities of God in everyone. I practice this morning, noon, and night: it is a living part of me. I am reborn spiritually now, because all day long I practice the Presence of God. No matter what I am doing – whether I am walking the street, shopping, or going about my daily business – whenever my thought wanders away from God or / the good, I bring it back to the contemplation of His Holy Presence: I feel noble, dignified, and God-like. I walk in a high mood sensing my oneness with God. His peace fills my soul./190-191
God indwells me, walks and talks with me. God is guiding me now. I can do all things through the God-Power that strengthens me. If God be for me, who can be against me? There is no power to challenge God, and God watches over me in all my ways. I realize every problem is Divinely outmatched and I grapple courageously with every assignment, knowing that God reveals the answer. God loves me and cares for me./194
The indicator of the Presence of God within me is a sense of peace and poise. I now cease all sense of strain and struggle. I now cease to sweat and my body feels warm, relaxed, comfortable and naturally dry all day long. I trust the God-Power implicitly. I know that all the wisdom and power I need to live a glorious and successful life are within me. I relax my entire body; my faith is in His wisdom; I go free. I claim and feel the peace of God flooding my mind, heart, and whole being. I know the quiet mind gets its problems solved. I now turn the request over to the God-Presence knowing it has an answer. I am at peace./202
Success in Examination
I am relaxed, at peace, serene, and calm. I have a perfect memory for everything I need to know at every moment of time and point of space. I am Divinely guided in my studies and I am completely relaxed and at peace at all examinations. I pass all examinations in Divine order, and I sleep in peace and I wake in joy./226
Your Right to Be Rich
It is your birthright to be rich. You are here to express the fullness of life in every way.
Your real purpose is to lead a happy, joyous, and glorious life—the life more abundant.
In fact, abundance are all around you, it is the main characteristic of nature. The treasure house of infinity is not to be found in a bank vault or a pirate’s trove. It is within your own inner mind.
Your thoughts are creative. Each thought tends to manifest itself in your life. Thoughts of promotion, riches, expansion, and achievement, provided you do not deny them subsequently, come forth after their kind. You promote yourself, thereby answering your own prayer because it is done to you as you believe.
Begin now to extract from that marvelous gold mine within you everything you need—money, friends, a lovely home, beauty, companionship, and all the blessings of life. Whatever you need, whatever you want, you can bring it forth when you learn to pray properly.
We are more than our bodies, our hereditary characteristics, our family tree, the color of our skin, and eyes. The human subconscious mind is part of the eternal spirit, the creator force which is available to you when you pray sincerely, and from your heart.
The greatest secret of all times is that all the riches of the universe are within you. It is infinite intelligence, boundless wisdom, infinite power and love, and the answer to all and every problem you may have. This secret is not hidden any further, for we are living in a time of revelation! Begin now to tap the tremendous powers within you and start to lead a full, happy and virtuous life.
It is natural that you want to achieve success, recognition, and prosperity in our life. You ought to have all the money you need for doing what you want to do, when you want to do it. There is no virtue in poverty. Poverty is a mental disease that should, and actually could be abolished from the face of the earth. Just as wealth is a state of mind, likewise poverty is a state of mind. If we want to eradicate all the slums in the world, we must first wipe out the mental slums created in people’s minds by their belief in poverty and lack.
It is the right of you and your family to have healthy, nourishing food, good clothes, a comfortable home, and the money you need to buy the good things of life. You need the time every day for meditation, prayer, relaxation, recreation, and places that make these necessities possible. The true meaning of prosperity does not lie in having more things. It means that you begin to advance mentally, spiritually, and intellectually, as well as socially and financially.
You are here to lead the abundant life, a life full of happiness, joy, health, and rich living. Begin now to release the riches of the treasure house within you. The real riches are within your subconscious mind.
The greatest secret in all the world is that God dwells in humans. The average person looks everywhere but within himself or herself for wealth, success, happiness, and abundance. God is the life principle, the infinite intelligence, and the infinite power within us, available instantly to all people through the medium of their thought.
You can tap the riches of your subconscious mind by claiming guidance, abundance, wealth, security, and right action, on a daily basis. Make a habit of meditating on these truths and your subconscious will respond.
If you lull yourself to sleep every night with two ideas, wealth and success, knowing that by repeating them you are activating the latent powers of your deeper mind, you will be compelled to express wealth and success. The infinite wisdom of your subconscious mind can only do for you what it can do through you. Your recurrent thoughts and feelings mold and fashion your destiny.
When you believe that the nature of this infinite intelligence in your subconscious mind is to respond to the nature of your request, the answers will always come to you, however most of the time in ways you do not know of.
Be careful when you affirm wealth, success, right action, and promotion that you do not subsequently deny what you have affirmed. That would be like mixing an acid with an alkali, and you would get an inert substance. In other words, stop neutralizing your good. Your subconscious mind is impressed by your predominant thoughts, emotions, and visual imagination. What you feel you attract, and what you imagine you become.
Be sure that you are not envious or jealous of the success, riches, and wealth of others. Your thoughts are creative, thus if you are envious or critical of those who have more wealth and honors than you, you will impoverish yourself along all lines. What you wish for others, you tend to create in your own life experience.
Whatever you really feel to be true, and so decree in your life, will definitely come to pass. Decree riches, health, beauty, security, and right action.
The Power of Scientific Prayer
To believe is to accept something as true. It is to make alive the truths of God by feeling the reality of them in your heart. This is much more than a conscious or theoretical assent; it means that you must feel the truth of what you affirm in your heart. Belief makes the difference between success and failure, riches and poverty, health and sickness. Believe in the riches of the infinite power within your subconscious mind and you will experience them.
When your problems seem overwhelming, break the tension by praying sincerely for someone who is very ill or in deep trouble, and suddenly you will find your own problems solved.
When praying for a loved one, be sure not to identify with the ailment or any part of the anatomy. Realize that the infinite healing presence is flowing through the person you pray for as harmony, health, peace, and joy. Visualize the person as radiant and happy. Meditate quietly on these truths and pray again when you feel led to do so. Wonders happen when you pray this way.
Sympathy means to go down into the quicksand with the other, and it does not help the sick person. Have compassion and give the sick person a transfusion of faith, confidence, and love, knowing that with God all things are possible.
Your thought is creative, and every thought tends to manifest itself. You can direct and steer your thoughts in the same way you steer your car. Thoughts are vibrations, and you have the power to raise those vibrations by raising the quality of your thoughts. The higher you vibrate, the more spiritual power you have. Your thought-image of wealth, success and achievement is the magnet that attracts to you all things that correspond with your thought-image.
The quiet mind get things done. Tell your body to be still, and quiet your mind by thinking of the infinite intelligence of your subconscious, which knows the answer. When your conscious mind is still and your body is relaxed, the wisdom of your subconscious will rise to the surface mind.
A good executive knows how to delete authority. You must be a good executive when using your mind. Turn your request over to your subconscious with faith and confidence, and you will get the appropriate response. You know when you have really turned it over, because you find yourself at peace.
You can give up smoking or any bad habit by decreeing freedom and peace of mind, while at the same time imagining a friend or a physician congratulating you on your freedom. As you affirm and envision an antipathy toward tobacco, your subconscious will take over and compel your freedom from the habit.
Many have discovered the wisdom of turning an acute domestic problem over to the God-Presence, trusting that divine wisdom and intelligence will bring about the solution that is best for all. The short affirmation ‘I now let go and let God’ brings about a perfect answer.
Liquidate the past and never dwell on old grievances or grudges. The future is your present thinking made manifest. Think regularly and systematically of harmony, beauty, love, peace, and abundance, and you will have a wonderful future.
We do not own our children. When difficulties arise with a child, pray as follows: ‘I loose my child to God completely. My child is divinely guided in all ways, and divine love takes care.’ Whenever you think of your child, bless him or her silently by knowing that God loves your child and cares for the best.’ As you do this, whatever happens will be good.
Think of the infinite riches within your subconscious ind. Think of harmony, peace, joy, love, guidance, right action, success—all these are principles of life, and as you think of the life more abundant, you activate the latent powers within you. Your subconscious will compel you to express the abundant life right here and now.
Become a Positive Thinker
Begin to think regularly and systematically of success, achievement, victory, abundance, and the good life. Thinking makes it so.
The rich get richer for the simple reason that the consciousness or awareness of wealth and the expectancy of more and more of God’s riches, which are omnipresent, attract more and more wealth, health, and opportunities to the person who walks in that state of mind. This requires you to become persistent in positive thinking.
The thought-image of wealth produces wealth; the thought-image of a journey results in the opportunity to take it. Life in the conscious expectancy to the best, and by the law of attraction, you will attract the riches of the infinite storehouse in your own subconscious mind. Keep thinking of prosperity, abundance, security, and increase in all things.
Whatever you give attention to grows, magnifies, and multiplies in your experience. Keep your attention on whatsoever things are lovely and of good report. Radiate abundance, goodwill, benevolence, and riches to others. They will pick it up subconsciously, and you will attract wonderful people into your life. They will prosper and you will prosper.
A rich person walks in the mental attitude that wealth is like the air he or she breathes. Having that state of mind, the person attracts more and more riches of all kinds. The poor person who is constantly picturing and talking of lack, bankruptcy, and hard times attracts these qualities to him or herself.
You can get acquainted with the riches of the infinite storehouse within you by reiterating and believing the following prayer: ‘I am ever grateful for God’s riches that are ever active, ever present, unchanging, and eternal.’
God gave you richly all things to enjoy in this universe. Life itself is a gift to you. The whole world was here before you were born. Believe and expect the riches of the infinite, and invariably the best will come to you. As you practice this simple truth, the desert of your life will rejoice and blossom.
Resentment and hostility are mental poisons that rob you of vitality, enthusiasm, and energy. A severe eating disorder is often a disguised form of committing suicide, a way of seeking revenge against someone else. The answer is to open the mind and heart to the influx of divine love and to realize that others really do care and love you, bringing about a healing and a transformation.
When you begin to realize that you are an organ of God and that God has need of you, a complete transformation takes place, and you begin to realize the riches of the infinite as love, goodwill, inner peace, and abundance.
Often blind faith will bring about remarkable results. Paracelsus said ‘Whether the object of your faith is true or false, you will get results.’ A young boy who stuttered fired his imagination into a joyous expectancy and blind faith and believed that if he slept in the cell where St. Kevin was supposed to have slept, he would be healed. His subconscious mind accepted his belief, and he was healed.
True faith consists of the belief that the infinite presence that created you knows all the processes and functions of your body and that when you unite with it believingly, results will follow. True faith is the combined use of your conscious and subconscious mind, scientifically directed.
Some people experience excessive emotionalism at public healing gatherings; their emotional hysteria often brings a temporary alleviation of pain. These hypnotic suggestions have only temporary effect, however. In true healing, your conscious and subconscious mind must agree, and you must believe in your heart in the infinite healing presence. Then the result is permanent, not temporary. When you pray for healing, complete forgiveness must take place of all guilt, peeves, and grudge. You know when you have forgiven others, because there is no sting in your mind.
There is no more power in sticks, stones, amulets, charms, or bones of saints. But if a person believes that the bone of a dog is that of a saint and that kissing it will bring a healing, it is not the bone of the dog that heals; it is the response of the person’s subconscious mind to blind belief.
Negative and destructive emotions snarl up in your subconscious mind and cause many diseases. When a person feels guilty, he feels he should be punished, but what he fails to see is that he is punishing himself.
A wonderful prayer for forgiveness is this: ‘I forgive myself for harboring negative and destructive thoughts about myself and others, and I resolve not to do this any more. Whenever a negative thought comes to me, I will immediately affirm, ‘God’s love fills my soul.’
Your skin is where the inner and the outer world meet. Emotions of hostility, anger, suppressed rage, and resentment may express themselves as skin diseases. Remorse and guilt, according to psychosomatic medicine, are the cause of many skin eruptions.
God never punishes. This presence always seeks to heal you and to make you whole. Self-condemnation and self-criticism are destructive mental poisons that send toxic signals all over your system, leaving you a mental and physical wreck.
Come to a decision. Forget the past and saturate your mind with divine love, peace, and harmony. Realize that divine love dissolves everything unlike itself. No matter what has happened in the past, you can change it now. Fill your subconscious with life-giving thought patterns and you will erase and crowd out everything unlike God.
Build Wealth Consciousness
Begin to think of the untold riches all around you waiting for human intelligence to reveal them. There is a guiding principle within you that, when called upon, will reveal to you the riches you are seeking.
There is an old saying: ‘Make friends with money, and you always have it.’ Look upon money as God’s idea, circulating among nations, maintaining economic health. Claim that money is circulating in your life, and your subconscious mind will see to it that you have all the money you need.
If you condemn money, calling it ‘filthy lucre,’ the root of all evil, and making other such nonsensical statements, your money will take wings and fly away. Money, like everything else in the universe, is universal substance, which is Spirit reduced to the point of visibility. Money, like nickel, cobalt, iron, platinum, lead, oil, and coal, are all forms of the universal substance operating at different frequencies and vibrations.
Adopt a new attitude toward money, realizing you are entitled to be richly compensated for your work, whether it be writing, teaching, gardening or whatever. Think of all the good you can do when money is circulating freely in your life.
You can work very hard, but if you dislike money or criticize it, you will find yourself in want financially. You do not make a god of money, but you realize that it is essential on this plane of existence. You look to the real source of wealth, which is God, and you know that as you turn to the source, it will turn to you and give you all the riches of life.
Claim that you are always using money wisely, judiciously, and constructively for your own good and for that of all men and women everywhere. Constantly claim also that the infinite reveals better ways in which you can serve.
The master key to disciplining the mind for money is to come to a clear-cut decision once and for all that God is the source of everything you see in the universe and that everything people have made came also out of the mind of God. Believing this to be true, your affirmation for wealth will prove productive. When fearful thoughts or thoughts of lack come to your mind, reverse them, at once by affirming, ‘God is my instant supply—that bill is paid in divine mind now.’ Never finish a negative statement about your finances. After a while, the negative thoughts will cease to come, and you will find you have conditioned your subconscious to wealth.
Whatever money you have, bless it now and believe it when you say, ‘God will multiply this exceedingly, now and forevermore.’ Believe it in your heart and you will never want all the days of your life.
When a husband and wife pray for each other, exalting the presence of God in one another and claiming peace, harmony, love, and inspiration, all resentment and ill will are dissolved, and both will prosper. If you are fired from a position, claim, ‘Only good can come out of this.’ You will discover a new door that opens up a far more wonderful position than the previous one.
Focus your attention on whatsoever things are lovely, noble, wonderful and God-like, and you will experience the riches of life. Remember, you reap what you sow in your subconscious. Watch your thoughts, for they are creative. Never talk about lack, limitation, or being unable to make ends meet. This multiplies your misery. Think of God’s riches and affirm boldly that the riches of the infinite are flowing to you in avalanches of abundance. Claim it boldly and the infinite will respond.
Your subconscious accepts the dominant of two ideas. Reason out clearly why all things visible and invisible come from one source. Think prosperity thoughts, and your subconscious mind will respond to your habitual thinking. Supplant all thoughts of poverty with the idea of God’s opulence and endless resources. Be open and receptive, and let wealth flow freely to you. Be a good receiver!
Your conscious mind is the pen with which you inscribe your true desires in your subconscious. Think quietly and with interest of each desire separately, watering it and nurturing it with faith and expectancy. Do this three to four times a day, in a quiet moment. By frequent habitation of the mind, you will impregnate your subconscious, and the cherished desires of your heart will be realized.
Never engage in thinking of lack, limitation, loneliness, and frustration. On the contrary, have a mental plan of the things you want, then realize whatever you attach to I am … , you will create in your life. Repeat it over and over again as a lullaby. Do it knowingly and feelingly. As you sow in your subconscious, so also will you reap.
Instead of grumbling, whining, and complaining about current conditions, reverse that attitude of mind and claim boldly: ‘Divine right action is mine. Divine success is mine. Divine love fills my soul, and whatever I do will prosper.’ Know that your thoughts are creative and that you are what you think all day long. Have a healthy respect for your thoughts of good. Your thoughts are your prayer!
Begin to contemplate that God’s beauty and riches flow freely through your thoughts, words, and deeds and you will experience the results of your thinking; furthermore, you will be able to pass on to your family the riches acquired by contemplation. You must have in order to give. Only rich people can contribute richly to all; the poor cannot give.
Life is a mirror for the king and the beggar, reflecting back to each of us precisely that which we deposit in our mind.
Your Psychic Treasure Map
The soul without imagination is what an observatory would be without a telescope. Imagination is the primal faculty of man, and it has the capacity to bring your idea into visibility on the screen of space.
You can draw up for yourself a treasure map, listing the cherished desires of your heart. Go over it several times a day, claiming and imaging the fulfillment of each desire now. Persevere and you will find that the images will be deposited in your subconscious mind, which will bring them to pass.
If you are apprehensive and worried about any important matter, such as, for example, a legal controversy, quiet your mind and claim that harmony, peace, and divine understanding operate in the minds and hearts of all involved. Imagine in all detail the harmonious agreement reached, and lull yourself to sleep with the phrase, ‘happy ending.’ You will succeed in impregnating your subconscious with the desired solution, and there will be a good outcome.
If you have trouble selling your house, imagine you are holding the check for full payment in your hand prior to sleep. Give thanks for the check, feel its reality, the naturalness and wonder of it all, and imagine yourself at the teller’s window depositing it in your bank account. Give thanks to your higher self and you will find wonders happening as you pray.
When you are competing with others for a contract, assignment, or position, avoid anxiety and tension by affirming, ‘I accept this assignment or something far more wonderful according to the riches of the infinite for me.’ If you do not get this particular position, something far more wonderful will open up for you in the light of your higher self.
All people throughout the world want increase; it is the divine urge within us seeking fuller, greater, grander expression in all phases of our lives. You plant wheat, barley, or oats in the soul, but it is God who gives the increase by multiplying the grains a thousandfold. Increase means the multiplication of your good along all levels.
Attention is the key to life. Clothe everybody mentally with the riches of God. Stop brooding over your own financial problems and stop talking about your lack of money. Give attention to the riches within and without, and you will prosper.
The Amazing Power of Belief and Faith
When I speak of faith—and even as it is spoken of in the Bible—I am not referring to creeds, dogmas, traditions, rituals, ceremonies, institutions, formulas, religious persuasion, or belief in a particular person, object, or thing. Look upon faith as an attitude of mind, an inner certitude—a certain way of thinking whereby you know that any idea that you emotionalize and feel to be true, is true and will be shown to be true.
A chemist has faith in the laws of chemistry, having learned the principles of chemistry; a farmer has faith in the laws of agriculture, having learned the principles of agriculture; and an engineer has faith in the laws of mathematics, having learned the principles of mathematics. To live the life you truly desire, you must have faith in the laws of your mind, having first learned the principles of your conscious and subconscious mind.
Everyone has faith in something. Some people have faith in failure, sickness, accidents, and misfortune. When you hear exhortations to have faith, you must remember that you already have faith. The question is, how are you using it constructively or negatively?
Faith is the mental image that in time clothes itself in a body of manifestation.
The law of belief operates in all religions of the world and is the reason they all are psychologically true. The Buddhist, the Christian, the Muslim, and the Jew all are able to receive answers to their prayers—but not because of the particular creed, religion, affiliation, ritual, ceremony, formula, liturgy, incantation, sacrifices, or offerings, but solely because of their belief, or mental acceptance and receptivity, about that for which they pray.
As a person thinks, feels, and believes, so it is done unto him or her.
Our lives are the result of the totality of our beliefs. That is why the law of life is the law of belief.
Your subconscious mind works according to the law of belief. All things that have happened to you are based on the thoughts you’ve impressed on your subconscious mind through belief.
What you believe in decides how you will live.
Whatever you think, feel, believe, and accept as true in your mind is the only cause in your world. Remember: It is done unto you as you believe.
Place your faith in God and all things good, and you will attract to yourself—by an immutable law—the people, conditions, circumstances, and events in the image and likeness of your contemplation.
If someone asked me how I pray, I would respond by saying that to me, prayer means the contemplation of the eternal verities or truths of the Infinite from the highest possible standpoint. It’s a way of thinking. It is a constructive mental attitude with the constant awareness that whatever you impress in your subconscious mind will come forth on the screen of space.
In other words, prayer is belief.
The Miraculous Power of Prayer
Many people’s prayers aren’t answered because consciously or unconsciously they are believing in two powers, or forces, in the world: one that brings sickness, and one that brings health; one that brings success, and one that brings failure; one that brings joy, and one that brings sorrow.
There is only One Power. Know this in your heart, and you will gain confidence and cease struggling, straining, and believing that you must put great effort into your prayers—thinking that praying is a type of contest between opposing forces.
In prayer, you are communing with your subconscious mind. When you offer new mental patterns to your subconscious mind through prayer, the latter accepts the new imagery and the past is obliterated and expunged.
In truth, you answer your own prayer, whether you are aware of it or not, because whatever you really believe to be true and accept in your conscious mind, is already real. In your mind, in other words, it is already a reality. Your subconscious mind simply brings it forth consistently as form, function, experience, and events.
Prayer is an act of spiritual companionship: Your conscious mind is conversing with your Higher Self, the God Presence within you, whereupon your Higher Self responds according to your belief in it.
In order to receive an answer to your prayer, you must first give to your mind. When you pray, you are not supplicating some distant deity. You are activating the Infinite Intelligence resident within you to begin working on behalf of your expressed desires.
When you beg and beseech, you are expressing that you don’t have what you want now, and your sense of lack attracts more loss, lack, and limitation.
Prayer is cooperation with your subconscious. Lightness of touch is important. Remind yourself that Infinite Intelligence is taking care of things in Divine order far better than you can by tenseness of your conscious mind. With the subconscious mind, relaxation is the key.
Do not be concerned with details and means as to how your prayer will be answered. Turn your request over quietly, with faith and confidence, to your subconscious mind, knowing in your heart that the answer will come—knowing that like the seed you deposit in the ground, which grows after its kind, so will there be an answer to your request according to your desire.
Only Infinite Intelligence within your subconscious knows the answer. Imagine the end as finished state. The law of your mind will do the rest.
Effective prayer is based upon the spiritual premise that there is a Supreme Intelligence within us that becomes the thing we desire, to the degree that we accept this premise as being true. Then, as you give your attention in prayer to God and Truth, you create a state of consciousness that begins to express itself as experience in your life. If you maintain a sustained, affirmative attitude of mind, you will sooner or later reach a state of fulfillment, a sense of absolute conviction. The acid test of whether or not you have reached a conviction is when your mind accepts the idea completely and you can’t conceive of the opposite. You must, in other words, unwaveringly believe in—accept as true—what you want. When you do that, you will have truly impressed your subconscious mind, which must then respond accordingly. Then you know the answer will come.
The Healing Power of Forgiveness
You cannot really forgive others completely until you have forgiven yourself first. To refuse to forgive yourself is nothing more or less than spiritual pride or ignorance.
Be intolerant of false ideas, but not of people.
The law of forgiveness is a scientific law of mind. Think and act aright, and you will be forgiven, even if in the past you have not used the principles of mind to pursue the highest good for yourself and others.
Self-condemnation brings failure and misery. Self-forgiveness brings happiness, peace, and triumphant living.
The Mysterious Power of Desire
The Infinite Power that gives you the desire will also reveal to you the perfect plan for its fulfillment.
What things soever ye desire, when ye pray believe that ye receive them, and ye shall have them. (Mark 11:24)
Following the Biblical instruction, once you give thought to your desire with conviction, you completely eliminate from your mind all consideration of conditions, circumstances, or anything that might imply adverse contingencies. You pray believing that you have already received it. Have faith in the reality of your desire, and you will attract everything necessary for its fulfillment. You are planting a seed in your mind by impressing upon the subconscious the particular thing that you desire. If you leave it undisturbed, it will infallibly germinate into external fruition.
The mere fact that you have a desire for which you seek an answer means that the answer is already present in your mental and spiritual world.
When you pray for your desire, you aren’t giving vitality to it: vitality is already inherent within it. What you’re doing is nourishing its manifestation as form, function, experience, or event.
Practice the law of silence. When you have a desire, don’t discuss it with anyone except when it is absolutely necessary to do so—for example, someone who is directly involved. You can share it with a spiritual advisor, who is there to aid you. To talk with anyone else—friends, relatives—however, can prove to be unwise, as often they will ridicule your desires and diminish your faith in attaining them successfully.
A desire is a prayer. The desires of an atheist can be answered just as well as those of any religious person, as long as the atheist puts his or her whole faith into the desires. The law of mind, like the law of nature, works for one and all.
Delight thyself also in the Lord; and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart. (Psalm 37:4)
Ralph Waldo Emerson said, ‘Nothing was ever achieved without enthusiasm.’ Therefore you must back your desire with enthusiasm.
Take your attention completely away from the thought of opposition; this will starve the opposition thought to death. Feast mentally and emotionally on your ideals and goals in life.
Failure over a long period of time to listen to your desires to be, to do, and to have will lead to frustration and unhappiness. Extinction of desire means apathy, no feeling, and no action.
Affirmations and prayer will not change matters. What is essential is that these are imbued with a strong desire. It is this combination that has the power to bring into your life prosperity of all kinds.
You must realize that there is nothing too good to be true, and nothing too wonderful to last.
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Techniques for Harnessing the Power of Desire
Twice a day, quiet the activity of your mind and remove all tension from your body by simply talking to it and telling it to relax. This brings about an outcropping of your subconscious mind, and all effort and negative thoughts will be reduced to a minimum. Know that if you order it in this way, it has to obey. In that quiet, receptive, peaceful state, focus your attention completely on your desire. Feel the joy and reality of it all. Become identified with the picture of your desire in your mind, and have faith that what you imagine and believe must come to pass. Think, imagine, speak, and act the way you would if you possessed your desire. For example, if you wanted a beautiful home, picture that ideal home in your mind—imagine yourself walking through the house, watering the garden, and playing with the children. Make it vivid and real. Feel its naturalness. Feel the solidity of the walls and the furniture. Show your friends through the house. Live there mentally, and what you imagine and feel to be true will come to pass. Then, turn this request over to your subconscious mind, releasing it with absolute faith and confidence in the same way that a farmer deposits a seed in the ground, trusting implicitly in the laws of growth, knowing that your subconscious will likewise respond according to the nature of your request.
The Persuasive Power of Gratitude
Praise and gratitude do not move God or the Law, but they do bring about a transformation in our minds and hearts so that we become a spiritual and mental magnet, attracting all kinds of good from countless sources.
The Boundless Power of Imagination and Visualization
Imagination is the action of forming mental images or concepts of what is not actually present to the senses. This is why it is said that where the five-sense person sees an acorn, the person with imagination sees an oak tree.
Your outer world and all its happenings, experiences, and events are projections of your inner mental images. When you become conscious of the distinction between your inner, causal world of imagination and the outer world of effects, you begin to truly understand how to bring your desires to fulfillment.
Mental images that you consciously accept as true are impressed on your subconscious mind and made manifest in your life. This was proved by Dr. Hans Selye at the University of Montreal’s Institute of Experimental Medicine and Surgery, who demonstrated that the subconscious mind does not differentiate between stress states caused by imagined worries and stress states caused by real concerns. Dr. Selye showed that if a person persists in indulging in imagined worries, the body will create excess hormones that will play havoc with the body, causing psychosomatic disease.
Remember, then, that the law of your mind is that you will get a reaction or response from your subconscious mind according to the nature of the thought or idea you hold in your conscious mind. The subconscious will not argue with you. If you negatively discipline, control, and direct your imagination by imagining fears and worries, that is what you will bring into your life. Or you can constructively discipline, control, and direct your imagination and get what you want in life and according to your belief it will be done unto you.
Unless there is first an image in the mind, it cannot move, for there would be nothing for it to move toward. Your prayer, which is your mental act, must be accepted as an image in your mind before the power from your subconscious will play upon it and make it productive.
With your disciplined imagination, you can soar above all appearances, discord, and sense evidence, and imagine the way things ought to be, realizing the sublime principle of harmony operating through, in, and behind all things.
Every picture that you create in your mind, particularly when emotionalized, comes to pass. It works out in action, either internally or externally. If you inhibit it from working out in external action, it is inevitable that it will manifest itself in some mental, physical, or emotional disharmony in the body.
As you are visualizing your desire, you will discover that there will come a time when you no longer feel driven to do so. This is the sure psychological sign that you have embodied your desire subjectively. It has become an inner knowing. Having realized your desire subjectively, you will have no further compulsion to pray for it.
The Creative Power of Sleep and Dreams
The highest degree of outcropping of the subconscious occurs prior to sleep and just after we awaken. In this state, negative thoughts that tend to neutralize your desire and so prevent acceptance by your subconscious mind are no longer present.
At times a dream may cause you to question some prevailing belief, thought, or action you are holding. Infinite Intelligence, in other words, often uses the occasion of sleep to stir us up, create a quarrel in our minds, and challenge our false indoctrinations, creeds or dogmas, compelling us instead to listen to God and Love.
You mold, fashion, and shape your own future by your thought and feeling, not by your dreams.
When you dream, your conscious mind is asleep and is creatively joined to your subconscious, which then dramatizes its contents in the form of dreams.
Robert Louis Stevenson devotes a whole chapter of Across the Plains to dreams. He was a vivid dreamer and had the persistent habit of giving specific instructions to his subconscious every night prior to sleep. He would request his subconscious to evolve stories for him while he slept. If Stevenson’s funds were at a low ebb, his command to his subconscious would be something like this: ‘Give me a good, thrilling novel that will be marketable and profitable.’ His subconscious responded magnificently.
Your Unlimited Power to Attain Success
—ou may say, ‘How can I put the first step of your steps to success into operation, if I don’t know what my true place is or what I should do?’ In such a case, pray for guidance as follows, knowing that the idea of success contains all the essential elements of success: ‘The Infinite Intelligence of my subconscious mind reveals to me my true place in life.’ Repeat this prayer quietly, positively, and lovingly to your deeper mind. As you persist with faith and confidence, the answer will come to you as a feeling, a hunch, or a tendency in a certain direction. It will come to you clearly and in peace, and as an inner silent awareness.
There is a law of mind that states that supply and demand are two aspects of one thing. What you are seeking is also seeking you. If you place your faith in Infinite Intelligence, it will direct you to your true place.
Learn that what you expect, you experience. You must, therefore, break the so-called jinx by boldly affirming the following before the commencement of any desired activity: ‘Infinite Intelligence is within me and knows how to complete all undertakings. If I waver or falter, I need only ask for and trust in the guidance of Infinite Intelligence, which is my own subconscious mind, and I will succeed.
Your Unlimited Power for Self-Acceptance
Life created you for a purpose. Bless those around you, and you will discover that by blessing others, you too will be blessed, and all sense of personal lack will be overcome.
There is genius within you. Attune yourself with the Wisdom and Intelligence of your subconscious, and the genius in you will be revealed.
As Ralph Waldo Emerson often pointed out, the great so often appear great to us because we are, through self-denigration, so completely on our knees.
Love of self, in the true biblical meaning, has nothing to do with egoism or self-aggrandizement. On the contrary, it is the wholesome veneration for the Divinity within you.
We rise as high as our dominant aspiration and descend to the level of our lowest concept of ourselves. Think kindly of yourself and have high hopes.
There are important reasons for you to accept yourself. You are Life expressed. Life became you, and you are an instrument for Life’s expression. You are very important, therefore, to Life, and you must recognize that Life is intensely interested in your welfare, development, and unfoldment, because you have a special work to do here.
Timidity is a state of mind. Do the things that you fear to do. Then the death of fear is certain, and you will find that you can lift yourself up to astonishingly great heights.
Refuse to accept suffering and never resign yourself to any situation. The cause of all is your own mind and spirit, and as you are the only thinker in your universe, you can change your thoughts. Then, there is nothing that can defeat you. Remember these things and you will find that you can lift yourself up mentally over all conditions and circumstances.
No two people are alike, any more than any two leaves of a tree or two crystals of snow are alike. That is why you are here for a purpose, and it is not lowly. Emerson said: ‘I am an organ of God and God hath need of me where I am, otherwise I would not be here.’
Monitor your self-talk constantly. There is a law of mind that responds to what you believe and decree yourself to be. Ideas are conveyed to the subconscious by repetition, belief, and expectancy, and are made manifest in your life. You cannot grow if your self-talk is negative.
Your Unlimited Power to Nurture Relationships
Do not permit people to take advantage of you and gain their point by attacks of the heart. Be firm but kind, and refuse to yield. Appeasement never wins. Refuse to contribute to others’ selfishness and possessiveness. Remember, do that which is right. You are here to fulfill your ideal and remain true to the eternal verities and spiritual values of life.
Remain true to your ideal. Know definitely and absolutely that whatever contributes to your peace, happiness, and fulfillment must of necessity bless all people who walk the earth.
When we understand the creative law of our own minds, we cease blaming other people and conditions for making or marring our lives. We are aware that externals are not the causes and conditioners of our lives and experiences. We know that our own thoughts and feelings create our destiny. For as a man thinketh in his heart, so is he. (Proverbs 23:7)
You must not try, through the use of any subtle mental influence of prayer, to bend another to your will. You must trust the Infinite Intelligence of your subconscious to bring what you desire in your life. You can get what you want in life through Divine Law and Order without infringing on the rights of others. Then there is no occasion for the use of mental coercion to try to influence others to do your bidding.
Not every critical comment from another will be false. If another finds fault with you and these faults are within you, rejoice, give thanks, and appreciate the comments. This gives you the opportunity to correct the particular fault.
Remember that negative criticism cannot hurt you without your consent. You cannot be hurt when you know that you are master of your thoughts, reactions, and emotions. Emotions follow thoughts, and you have the power to reject all thoughts that may disturb or upset you because they are not in accordance with the law of harmony.
Refuse to transfer the creative power within you to others. You are the master of your own mind and should positively refuse to let others disturb you or manipulate your mind. The suggestions of others have no power to create the things they suggest. The power is in your own thought.
There are difficult people in the world. They are argumentative, uncooperative, cantankerous, cynical, and sour on life. Just remember that misery loves company. When you are around such people, think love in your heart, and it will be so.
In love and marriage, adjustments are needed, but this is not the same as trying to make your partner over. Such attempts only destroy the other’s pride and self-esteem, and arouse a spirit of contrariness and resentment that proves fatal to the marriage bond.
Before you can draw to yourself the ideal partner and enter into a truly harmonious relationship, you must forgive the people in your past relationships.
Your resentment and hostility toward your previous partners becomes magnified in your subconscious mind and leads you over and over again to attract—and be attracted by—others who have an affinity with those negative feelings. It is the operation of the law of attraction. Like draws like. Birds of a feather really do flock together.
The key to changing this pattern is forgiveness. You must set yourself and your former partners free. You must replace your attitude of resentment with one of love and peace. If you can sincerely affirm, regarding your past partners, ‘I release you and let you go, wishing for you health, wealth, love, happiness, peace, and joy,’ you will find your whole understanding of love and marriage changed to a more spiritual basis.